or it to work, you have to be two to kindly spice up your sex life . So, before all, know it, a minimum of reciprocity is necessary. How do you know if your buddy will play the game? By acting to test his respondent, pardi. And if it makes you the stroke of the starfish, you know what you have to do …
Remember the beginnings of your relationship : strangely, when you meet, you’re almost never tired. We chained the nights of four hours, convincing that “the fatigue of sex” is not so exhausting, and that it brings its share of vitality on our face yet surrounded. To honor this healthy tiredness, you were doing the belly dancing while he was more enterprising and greedy than ever. One observation: mobility, agility, the desire to move is one of the things that one loses first. Then one activates , one ceases to lie down and glued to the mouth of his partner to better leave exploring his navel , or this precious corner between his shoulder blades or behind his knees, which we liked so much at first.
The result: one feels ultra desire as on the first day and finally emancipated from the too simple trilogy sex / breasts / mouth, so boring in the long run.
2. We talk
If you are convinced that speaking in bed is not your thing, move away a bit of salacious clichés to spice up the action with a few well placed words. It is not necessarily to be treated of all the names (although), the fact of verbalizing what one loves and that makes us good gives an assumed dimension very exciting for the other, and for oneself . Beyond the signals of the body, it is another dimension of the relationship that is eroticized : language. It changes a bit of “you made the shopping?”, Frankly.
The result: on the spot it is torrid. And after ? A slight shame can pink our cheeks of pleasure … (or not.)
3. Looking for the limit
You fantasize about 50 shades of Gray ? You do not understand the interest of sodomy ? Do you think the missionary is doing the best we can at the moment? It’s high time to test your limits . Sexually first: I dare, or not? How far can I go? And if it is not the limits of your sexuality that you reject, because you have already done everything, then try with those of your habitat: will this wash basin hold under the passion of coitus ?
The result is fun, invigorating and above all intriguing . Who can boast of having (really) explored everything?
4. Change your habits
Replacing her old pajamas by lingerie , making love in the afternoon, assiduously going to the quickie , watching a porn together … Here comes the time to renew! Look for ideas, change your habits, give yourself themes … Goal? Bring you closer to a common idea, then decline it together as much as possible.
The result: the thematic makes an accomplice , and the curiosity is exacerbated. Be careful not to go too far. No one wants to discover that in fact, her boyfriend is zoophile or wants to dress in baby during the act …
5. We test the “strategy of the top of bed”
Ah, how cozy it is to put yourself under the duvet , spoon, to wish a good night and to pin 10 hours in a row. But the “top of the bed strategy” is there to upset your cocooning routine . The principle is quite simple: since we have lost the habit of making love when we go to bed, we decide to make a habit of making love on the bed before sinking into the arms of Morpheus .
The result: Chillers will not enjoy much at first, but the pleasure is double. Once slipped under the sheets, one has only one desire: to start again.
6. We become a videographer (or cinephile)
Do a sextape ? And why not ! You are at the top of your physique (without putting yourself under pressure, the body ages from 25 years old, so complexed or not, you are today more beautiful than tomorrow, to summarize) and it would be a pity to die silly. Be confident ! And if you’re frightened by the idea of showing off your three beads, or if you’re afraid your man will put the fruit of your spin on the PornHub online to take revenge the day you leave him, go for a cure of movies erotic , or pornographic. Some suggestions: The Secretary (for spanking), Tampopo (for food), 9 ½ weeks (for perversion), Amant(for sensuality), 50 shades of Gray (for disappointment) … The list is long!
The result: seeing that for some, sending yourself into the air is an art, a full-time activity or even a delicious deviance can be very inspiring.
7. We are interested in the practice of Guy (and more if affinities)
The Tao: this word is familiar to you for a long time, but frankly, you sit with your naked partner, caress for hours without expecting anything, it’s a blur concept for you. It’s time you buy a good guide , and show your man the joys and mystery of orgasm without ejaculation, and the long-lasting sexual act. Along the way, take a detour through a full exploration of the point G , and strive to bring forth the woman fountain that lies in you.
The result :in addition to probably having to change the sheets, we re-educate sexually and we learn more than ever about her body, that of her partner and about the infinite possibilities of sexuality. An entire program.
8. Dare to play role plays
The role-playing game , it is not necessarily a disguise ridiculous (although frankly ridiculous disguise can work well). If you do not want to play “schoolgirl” or hysterical dominatrix, then test the psychological role play. For that, go for example in an unfamiliar bar, with your guy. When he greets you, see him and change his name, a secret agent on a mission. The rest of the character is created by himself, very naturally, and you are commissioner of the Quai d’Orsay in the footsteps of a dangerous malotru.
The result :sleeping with your half in the shoes of another can make things that you would never dare to do. Practical, if you do not assume the next morning, you reject the fault on “it”: it is crazy as it is a catina fan of spanking, Madam Commissioner!
9. We sleep naked
Sleeping naked with many virtues: if some studies indicate that this can reduce diabetes (strange, but true), sleeping in Eve’s clothes especially allows to connect to the body of the other, while boosting his self-confidence.
The result: one gets closer, one feels beautiful, the bodies come close … In short, one becomes a sexual bomb. What more ?
10. We decouple at the hotel
Okay, it can be expensive, but the one who is saving on the back of his couple is badly barred. The hotel is the ideal place to get laid in the air without thinking about anything other than sex , except possibly the bath that will be taken together afterwards. The opportunity also to opt for a dress code Marilyn, in white bathrobe all holy day. Something to make crazy the maids in DO NOT DISTURB mode non stop. You can only get out of this sweet refuge if you want to buy champagne and chips, and you continue to make love and take baths again and again.
The result: we come to forget that we have kids / a job / family / and laundry to do at the apart. Happiness, what.