Planning your wedding can be stressful because it involves planning, coordination, and financial investment. There are many tasks to complete, such as finding a venue, selecting a menu, arranging transportation, rent wedding décor, finding wedding attire, and making sure all guests are comfortable. Additionally, the event may bring up family dynamics and all types of expectations, leading to additional pressure and stress. These factors can make a wedding a challenging and stressful experience.
Plus, it is most likely that you and your partner do not have any experience regarding wedding planning which makes the whole thing a new experience. And the time factor is another thing you have against you. You might end up looking everywhere for the best backdrop stands without any luck. And the list goes on, but once your wedding is over, you can fully relax and enjoy the sweet moments of being newlyweds.
But after all those planning months, do you have any idea about what you should do right after your wedding? Yes, many couples focus on the ceremony and reception and totally forget about their after-wedding plans. And since we are certain you have found all types of articles about how to plan your wedding and wedding-related events, no one discloses what you should do after the wedding. That’s why we are here to help you with the things you shouldn’t forget after saying I do.
Arrange transportation ahead.
Many couples know exactly how they will arrive at the wedding ceremony and reception venue but completely forget about how they will leave the venue. Ensure you have a car or service to leave the venue and head home or to your hotel.
Make your bag.
Yes! Packing a bag for after the wedding reception is crucial because you don’t want to end up sleeping in your wedding attire, right? That bag often stays in the hotel room or wherever you plan to get ready for the wedding. If that’s not the same place where you plan to sleep after the wedding, then it is important to send that bag to the right place. Pack a comfy outfit for after the wedding, a pajama, and your next morning outfit.
Plan your night.
After the ceremony, you must rest and spend the night somewhere, right? Well, as obvious as it could sound, you wouldn’t believe how many couples forget to book a room or make plans for the night. It would be ideal for making your plans with plenty of anticipation, so you can get the best prices and be able to choose from more than one option.
Gather your things when the lights go out.
In addition to thanking every guest for their attendance when your wedding reception ends, it is time to take of a couple of things. For example, you should finalize any payment left pending, thank your venue staff, and of course, gather your things. Here is a list for you to consider.
– Pack up any personal items or decorations.
– Return any rented items, such as tablecloths or chairs.
– Collect any gifts or cards from the gift table.
– Check with the venue to ensure everything is in order and tidy before leaving.
– And please don’t forget about your wedding certificate or other important documents.
If you are not staying until the party ends, you can delegate those tasks to your bridal party or a family member so you can leave a bit earlier in case you need to catch a flight or simply want to leave before the party ends.
Relax.
After planning for so many months, you deserve to rest and relax to enjoy the sweet newlywed life, don’t forget to book some time after the wedding to do it so. And you don’t have to plan for a honeymoon exactly, you can simply rest at home and leave the honeymoon for later.
Send thank you notes.
Thank you notes are a way to be grateful for the gifts you received during your wedding and related events. Please keep track of who gifts you what because it is easy to overlook one or two in the sea of gifts you will receive. You can ask your bridal team to take care of making a list, and during a fun wine night, start making all the thank you notes.
Storage
We know it doesn’t sound like much fun, but this is something you need to do after the wedding. Preserve memories and keep them safe from natural elements; you can take your wedding attire to be professionally cleaned and make sure you store it where humidity won’t harm it. Some other important items, like the veil or your floral bouquet, could be elements you wish to treasure.
Take care of legalities.
While getting married sounds like a fairy tale, there are some other parts you must take care of, and that could mean you need to get to your local government offices to take care of your marriage certificate or even change your name, last name, and then make appointments for your passport and driver’s license to be updated.
In conclusion, it is crucial to take a moment and catch your breath after the wedding. You want to ensure you take care of all the essential details, but you also want to enjoy your newlywed life. Remembering that the wedding is just the start of your journey as a couple is important. You will face many new challenges and adventures in the coming years, but you can overcome anything with love, patience, and teamwork.
The most important thing is to cherish each other, enjoy the little moments, and make the most of your time together. Your wedding day may be a once-in-a-lifetime experience, but your love story is beginning. So, take a deep breath, hold hands, and start your new journey together as newlyweds, ready to take on the world.
