The benefits of body rubs are countless, and not only help alleviate tired and sore muscles but is an important bonding tool that helps increase intimacy between couples.
A great body rub is blissful to receive, but to give one is equally as satisfying and enjoyable. Knowing that you have provided an intense experience to your partner, as well as providing a sense of well-being, relaxation, and stimulation.
For neglected relationships, making time to relax together and share full body rubs can help rebuild and reinforce a close bond, and it also promotes a feeling of trust and understanding between a couple.
Sensual OKC body rubs have healing properties, both physical and emotional. Physically, it will improve circulation and blood flow and improve flexibility. Emotionally, it will make you feel invigorated, restored, and renewed, and gain a deepened relationship with your partner.
Don’t run out and enroll yourself in a Tantric Massage Course. You do not need to be a trained professional to be able to give a satisfying body rub. All you need is a beautiful body rub oil or body rub bar, and be willing to spend the time to explore your partner’s body.
- Set the Mood
- Remove any distractions – turn off your mobile, and the television.
- Have a warm environment
- Light some fragrant candles
- Have your body rub oil infused with your favorite fragrance or essential oil
- Massage Techniques
- Ensure your hands are warm.
- Drizzle body rub oil onto the skin, or place a body rub bar on the skin to melt.
Using circular motions, press firmly with one or two hands, starting with the muscular parts of the body ie: shoulders.
Use your fingertips or the heel of your hand, depending on the pressure you want to apply. Avoid intense pressure or poking as this may cause discomfort and detract from the pleasure you want to promote.
Keep constant contact with the skin.
With the increased blood flow comes a feeling of relaxation and happiness. You will feel you partner relax, so continue with long sweeping strokes. Use your whole hand to continually loop around an entire section of the body, without losing contact with the skin, i.e. when massaging the back and shoulders, use one continuous stroke that starts above the buttocks, up the spine, continue out over the shoulders, then down the sides, ending back at the hips.
Take your time. Do not rush. Enjoy exploring your partner’s body. The satisfaction you receive from giving your partner pleasure will, in turn, please you.
Massage oil consists of a carrier oil, that is blended with pure essential oils or fragrant oils. Some carrier oils are more easily absorbed into the skin and provide more benefits to the skin. Soy Bean Oil or Sweet Almond Oil are two carrier oils that are great for massaging. They provide deep moisturizing and are packed with vitamins A, B1, B2, B6, and E, great for conditioning and softening the skin, as well as being anti-inflammatory.
Using a fragrant body rub oil, such as a romantic blend, can set the mood, as well as have the ability to transport your mind to an exotic place. Fragrant oils do not have any therapeutic benefits and are simply used for their aromatic properties.
A body rub oil that has a blend of pure essential oils can have numerous added health benefits. Try using a Relaxation Massage oil that will have essential oils included that are calming and soothing.
- Essential Oils that have a relaxing effect are:
- Lavender Essential Oil-relaxing, soothing, and calming
- Chamomile Roman Essential Oil-relieves stress and healing
- Mandarin Essential Oil-refreshes, uplifts, and strengthens
- Bergamot Essential Oil-uplifting, restoring, energizing, anti-depressant
- Vetiver Essential Oil-deeply relaxing, aphrodisiac
- Rosemary Leaf Extact-stimulates circulation, promotes well-being
Put it on Your Calendar:
Now you have the tips on what to do, make sure your body rub time becomes your most important appointment of the week.
Our modern lives often don’t allow us to stop and concentrate on each other. So it’s up to you! Book an hour or two in your schedule, and make massaging a regular engagement.
